Flaky people beware, I’m about to shit all over you.
Do not, under any circumstances in the future, make plans with me and then flake on me because something comes up later that you deem more important. If you have double booked yourself at the time of asking me to do something, I will understand and accept that, but if you have something ‘come up’ at a spur of the moment, it’s unacceptable.
I’m sick of looking forward to things and making an effort and ending up alone and upset about said plans.
Respect is something you earn, not that you get automatically; and doing this doesn’t earn you any respect.